I found her on Facebook and became friends with her. She liked to play games and chat. I talked to her for hours. We talked about sex after a time. She asked me if I would like a couple pics of her. I said yes. About 5 minutes later, I get a pic of the nice pair of tits I had ever seen. 5 minutes later I got a pic of her standing naked. She told me she liked to date older guy. I asked her if she would like to go out and she told me she thought I would never ask. We went out to dinner and had probably the best date of my life.
I dated a young lady that was 25 and I was 50. I met her at a charity banquet. The moment she walked into the room I was in love. She was not a super beautiful woman, but she was the only woman in the room for me. She was very tall (6 feet), nice big tits and a nice ass. I prefer women with some meat on their bones. She was there with her boyfriend. I knew him and he was a total POS. He had told me some of the things he did and how he treated them. I tolerated him but had no use for him at all.
I was at work one night and she called me up and asked me what I was doing. I told her just some paperwork. She told me to come to the front door and let her in. I was shocked and ran to the front door. I took her to my office and closed the door. She took her coat off and she was naked under the coat. Needless to say, I got one of the best blowjobs I had ever had and then I bent her over my desk and fucked he., We did that several times when I worked nights.
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
I took her home and she invited me in. We sat down and she got me a drink. I asked about her boyfriend. She told me how he treated her. We became bitter enemies after that. We watched a little TV and talked. She was so easy to chat with. She told me that she had an instant attraction to me when we met. She asked me if I would fuck her. I of course told her yes. We went to the bedroom, and I undressed her. I loved her body. It was not perfect, she was a bit overweight and a shaved pussy. She was the best lover I had ever had. She liked to be a bit of a submissive. I she liked her ass slapped when I fucked her. She liked her nipples gently bit. I fucked her in every position we could get in. I stayed the night with her and we got very little sleep.
I dated her for a couple years then she moved due to work. I was heartbroken because I had wanted to marry her. I later found out her family was against any relationship with me. I hated them for that but I knew her moving was for the best. She did come back every once in awhile, She would call me and then we would meet someplace. She always wanted to go home with me and fuck. I would always give her my best. She would leave the next day, tired and her pussy full of cum. I was head over heels in love with her. She wanted alot of kids and I could not give them to her.
